I was again selected as the chair of the Riverbend TDG. Ed retained membership, and Pamela retained Communications. Mustafa was the new treasurer. Pete promised to show him the ropes.
Riverbend Executive Committee
| NAME | SECTOR | OFFICER |
| Lenora Crane | Northwest | |
| Thelma Delgers | Northeast | Chair |
| Mustafa Ali | Central Treasurer | Treasurer |
| Emmanuel Bovell | Southwest | |
| Pamela Harris | Southeast | Communications |
| Ed Broncher | Northeast (2nd) | Membership |
| Orville Kennedy | Southeast (2nd) |

It was my turn to ask Stacey about her values at our next truck stop dinner.
"Well, I spent two years in a dorm, but my dorm was nowhere near as wild as yours. We had a few players with occasional one-night stands, and we had a few steady couples releasing their libido. So there was some hanky-panky going on. I didn't experience much peer pressure from my dorm mates in regards to sex and alcohol. Or maybe I was able to ignore it. It seemed everyone left everyone else to their own values.
"But I wanted out in my third year, so a fellow student and I rented an apartment. We got along well. We both found steady boyfriends, and we had a little fun. I really thought my fellow was marriage material, but after a year, we parted. My fourth year was celebate, and that's the way it has been since."
"Looking for anybody?"
"Kind of. About twice year, I take a week off to attend a singles conference hosted by the Unitarian Universalists. I've been talking to a certain fellow from the last conference."
"The United Whatsits?"
"Unitarian Universalists. It's the religion of my parents—which I have recently fully embraced."
"Is it Christian?"
"That depends on who you ask. In regards to the nature of Jesus, we have a different theology than other Christian denominations. To many of them, we are not Christian. And we also rely on other philosophical works for our guidance."
"How has that guidance affected your life?"
My family are the only followers in Riverbend. Even Joosemin has no followers. The few times a year we travelled to conventions to meet with other Unitarians, usually out of state. But each Sunday, my mother and father would have a short service before dinner. That's how my two brothers and I learned the principles of the faith.
"So your religion has been around for a long time?"
"We've been around since 1600. At that time, there were quite a few Christian movements coming from the Catholic Church. We are one of them."
"But let's get back to guidance," I said.
"We Unitarians have our own code of values. One of them is to be of service to our community. Hence my involvement in the Battenor Ecological Society.Another is justice. In the abolitionist days, many Unitarians were very active in the anti-slavery movement. Many members today are involved with civil rights or environmentalism.
"And we are taught not to treat people outside our religion as inferior. So we associate with others.
Stacey continued, "As a teen, I had little interest in the party lifestyle. So I was able to keep my head on a little straighter than many American youth.
This kept me out of life-changing trouble. I didn't realize how my upbringing set up these values until my second year at college.
"And I was quite focused on getting my degree. Now my priority is to get my student debt paid off. When that is done, I want to be of more service to my community.
"With my academic training, I now really understand how religion can be a social force to shape people's lives for the better. When people change themselves for the better, the community changes for the better. All that comes from my Unitarian Universalist upbringing."
"How has your faith affected our relationship?"
"Haven't our conversations helped you better understand your past and your future?"
Just then, I decided I wanted to be more like Stacey. But maybe without so much religion.